Sexiest Music Videos to Get Things Started – R&B & HipHop Edition


There are plenty of great go-to sexy songs when you want to set the mood. Unfortunately, the sexiest songs don’t always come with the sexiest music videos. And some of us like the visual stimulation to move things in the right direction. Don’t fret though, cause we’ve got you covered. Below are the sexiest music videos R&B and hip-hop have to offer (other genres coming soon).

The Wife and I can attest that having these videos playing in the background is a sure fire way to set a sexy ambiance. Press play and its all but guaranteed you won’t make it off the couch before clothes are flying and mouths are all over bodies. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.

Rihanna – Kiss it Better

An ode to going down and the visuals to match. Rihanna knows sex and music, and her videos never disappoint. The first four videos are all Rihanna, so if you aren’t a fan keep scrolling.

Rihanna – Pour it Up

Rihanna took pole dancing lessons before making the video for this strip club anthem turned declaration of independence. And it looks like they paid off.

Rihanna – Work (Both Videos)

This dual videoed song is a double treat. First we’re gifted with a Caribbean dancehall themed video (we call it the Rihanna version) and then the same song is reshot in a color box (a la Drake) themed video. Both are great!

DJ Khaled ft. Rihanna – Wild Thoughts

You’d think we’d had enough Rihanna by now, but nope. DJ Khaled brings the heat with the beat from “Maria Maria”, a 1999 hit by Carlos Santana. Hardcore Santana fans may not be impressed, but fans of Rihanna’s body and DJ Khaled’s music will be wildly entertained.

Ciara ft. Ludacris – Ride

If you haven’t seen Ciara dance, you’re in for a hip-thrusting, booty gyrating treat. You could watch the video on mute and you’d still have a good time.

Beyonce – Partition

Beyonce’s Partition was shot in Crazy Horse, a famous cabaret in Paris, France. She definitely pushed the envelope of sexiness in this video and no sexy music video list would be complete without it.

Kanye West – Fade

Are you a fan of hard bodied dancers? Or more specifically, Teyana Taylor? With themes from Flash Dance, 80s pornography, and more, this one woman show is sure to keep things sizzling.

Trey Songz – Neighbor Know My Name

A song about sex so loud the neighbors know your name? And a video sexy enough to match? If you’re a fan of Trey Songz or sexy R&B in general, you’ll be pleased with this offering.

Trey Songz – Na Na

Another offering from Trey Songz, featuring The Bella Twins and Rosa Acosta. Fitness and sex themed, this black and white video will inspire you to work up a sweat with your favorite “work out” partner.

Mariah Carey – We Belong Together

Mariah is sexy. It’s that simple. But this video takes it to a whole new level with both the romance and the sexy.

Mariah Carey ft. Miguel – Beautiful

Miguel and Mariah’s styles both make for some sexy music, and this video showcases what they are capable of when teamed up. Mariah looks great, and her moves might just inspire your partner to shake her booty too!

112 – Peaches and Cream

An oldie but a goody. I wasn’t even old enough to be having good sex when this song came out, but even as a grown-ass man (18 years after the song’s release) this song still comes to mind when I think of sexy songs. This was before HD, so you’ll have to excuse the square (not widescreen) shot video, but it’s worth it to enjoy this classic with a mate.

Usher – Love in this Club

Which of us hasn’t fantasized about sex in the middle of a dance club? I know I have. Usher never disappoints when it comes to silky smooth sexy R&B.

Trey Songz – Slow Motion

Trey Songz is back with Slow Motion. Knowing how to read her body language, knowing when to go slow, fast, hard, soft… this is the focus of the song and video. Very smooth.

Miguel – Coffee

Fucking in the morning. Featuring his then girlfriend (and now wife) Nazanin Mandi, this video is SEXY!

K Michelle – Birthday

I just love this song. Everything about it is fucking sexy. From the references to smoking weed to a ménage à trois, this one covers all you need for a night of sexy.

Sevyn Streeter – Sex on the Ceiling

Sexy silhouettes and sexy lyrics. Nothing else needed.

Tank ft. Trey Songs – When We Remix

The first time I heard the original version of this song, I liked it, but it was a little on the nose. Then Trey Songz came in on the remix and totally killed it. This is fire!

The Dream – Falsetto

I must admit, The Wife isn’t in love with this song. She’s not a fan of men singing in high pitches (though she loves Justin Timberlake, so I dunno). But I like it, so here it is.

Cassie – Me & U

The first time I saw this video I knew I wanted to see it again and again. Cassie is hot. And she’s got amazing moves. Check and check.

Drake – Nice for What

So many gorgeous women in this video… Olivia Wilde, Ballerina Misty Copeland, Rashida Jones, Model Jourdan Dunn, Issa Rae, Zoe Saldana, Swedish twins Elizabeth and Victoria Lejonhjärta, Comedian Tiffany Haddish, and many more.

The Weeknd – Earned It

Our final video is featured in Fifty Shades of Grey, and when you watch it, you’ll understand why it made the list. The Weeknd kills it. Wowzas.

So there you have it. Our favorite sexy R&B and Hip Hop music videos. Think we missed a good one? Comment below and we’ll consider adding it to the reader submissions at the end of the list.

Want the playlist in Spotify? It’s less sexy without the visuals, but we don’t judge.

About the author

The Husband

By day he's a prominent healthcare professional, but by night he shows his true self; a sex-obsessed husband with a knack for blogging. His musings include sex aids and relationship enhancements, exploring sex-related ideas and fantasies, and writing erotic short stories.

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